The man’s preference toward its ego amazed me though the rumours existed which humans can be socialist or nationalist rather than being Narcissist. However, I wondered humans are basically social animals who are capable of easy interaction with their domestic environment, it turns out to be a delusion which seems quit believable.
Anything we do, anyone we are with, anything we love, even anything we claim is unreal when it comes to choose between us and them. Humans are inherently those Narcissists who only think of themselves first than others. Reality proves that the friends we keep, the foods we like, the things we do, the sacrifices we make and even the ones we love are only to keep us on the right mood. We made our own infrastructures, built skyscrapers, produced technological advancements; Instead, damaged Ozone, polluted environment, killed animals and demolished the nature. We humans are all the same preferring us instead of others.
Love apparently is the realest thing in the whole universe while it’s a shame for us misusing the holiness of it for sack of our own feelings. A man may claim his love is real for somebody while he is only responding to demands of his ego. Means that even we love someone who can help us be happy. Have you ever seen one getting along with someone whom cannot be happy with? Have you ever seen one loved anybody not just because he/she can make him/her smile? Or have you ever seen one loving somebody not for the sack of his/her own? It seems ridiculous while it is a fact that even we love God for the sack of heaven. Shame on us even we cannot love without any reason. Means that even we love for the benefit of our own.
We were told once: “love you religious brothers and sisters, love your own tribal relatives, love your own homeland people and to love only your regional people” that is a kind of rare selfishness which only allows us to love ours. what if we were wrong? We are only taught to hate those we haven’t seen them yet. That’s as well considered a kind of Narcissism to love only what is yours. We love ourselves; Love yourself!
Basam Murtaza Tahoor
11:55 PM, 13 DEC 2018